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I know how good anal phone sex feels becuase I too am one of those rare anal ladies who also loves to take it up the ass. I really enjoy recieving prolonged rim jobs. That is what gets my tight little butt hole excited and ready to relax so that I can comfortably accomodate a big hard cock. Just goes to show what a tight liitle asshole can take when it has been properly prepared.